Mal is developing his own personality!

Meant to post this on April 7 – not sure why it got stuck in my drafts.

Michael mentioned yesterday that Malachai is finally developing a personality of his own. He brought up how it was sort of blunted before, you could interact with him, but there wasn’t anything about it that screamed, this is me, I am Malachai.

He loves Alice Cooper. He wants to dress up like him for Halloween. He loves scary movies and fast rides. I kind of attribute part of that to his sensory issues (if he needs BIG input physically it makes sense he’d love roller coasters and stuff, and if he needs it physically, why wouldn’t he need BIG input mentally too? So scary stuff = more input to his brain) but it’s giving him and Michael something way cool to bond over.

He said something yesterday and I can’t remember what it was (Michael told me I should have posted then and there lol Silly me for not doing it) but it was what brought on this conversation. He might be coming up on seven, but he is finally turning into… himself. It is giving me great joy to see it happen. Dorian had his own personality around 3 or 4, and Eshiva is loaded with personality, but Mal… he was just kind of rolling along. Now he pops up with little quips and stories and is fierce about what he likes and doesn’t like and what he does and doesn’t want to do and why (as opposed to being engrossed in one thing and woe be unto you if you tried to do something else).

It’s not all sunshine and roses, but this is just amazing to me.

BBC NEWS | Europe | Child elopers’ Africa plan foiled

Child Elopers’ Africa Plan Foiled : BBC News

Two German children – aged six and seven – have been stopped by police from eloping to Africa to tie the knot in the sun, reports say.

The budding lovebirds, identified as Mika and Anna-Lena, packed bathing costumes, sunglasses and a lilo and headed for the airport.

Sweet sweet story. Scary for the parents, but super sweet for the kids.

Inside the vaccine-and-autism scare | Salon Books

Inside the vaccine-and-autism scare | Salon Books.

I have so much trouble picking how the right part to highlight, so just go read please. Here is a bit of the article:

Offit begins by tracing the history of the anti-vaccine movement to its roots in England in 1998: That’s where a young, charismatic and ambitious researcher named Andrew Wakefield held a news conference to reveal he had discovered that the measles-mumps-rubella (MMR) vaccine causes autism. The prestigious medical journal Lancet subsequently published his paper. Soon, headlines warning parents about “child jabs” appeared on the front page of newspapers all over the U.K., and droves of parents began refusing the MMR vaccine. Despite the resurgence of measles in the U.K. as a result, Wakefield was hailed as a muckraker. The BBC even made a biopic about his fight against the establishment.

In 2000, the news crossed the pond. Indiana Rep. Dan Burton, himself the grandfather of an autistic child, worried she had been injured by vaccines, and held a congressional hearing to publicize Wakefield’s findings. Several scientists in the American medical community testified that they, too, had research showing that something in the MMR was suspicious. Just as in England, the media here swarmed. Among the resulting press were Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s “Deadly Immunity,” published simultaneously in Rolling Stone and Salon, and David Kirby’s blockbuster book, “Evidence of Harm,” a damning account of the link between autism and vaccines and of our government’s efforts to cover up a link between the two.

Kirby focused on the notion that thimerosal, a mercury-based compound used to protect vaccines from contamination, is causing an epidemic of autism. This despite the fact that thimerosal was removed from vaccines in 2001, even though it had been used for decades and no studies had been done to verify there was a danger. (Not unexpectedly, this decision, made abruptly by leaders in the medical community, raised even more suspicion about vaccines and autism). Kirby’s book became the centerpiece of the anti-vaccine movement and brought him fame. He started speaking widely on the subject, earning appearances on programs as well regarded as “Meet the Press.” He even began talks to turn his book into a movie by the same company that made “An Inconvenient Truth.” In describing all of these factors — shocking medical research, media publicity, political endorsements and conspiracy theory — Offit shows us how vaccines, the most significant and lifesaving medical therapy in history, fell from grace.

Now, I’ve said it before, I do not believe vaccines all by their lonesome cause autism – or anything. Well, some of them cause the disease they are supposed to prevent, but frankly, some antibiotics make me way more sick than whatever they are trying to heal, so there you go. I do believe our kids get so many vaccines, and they are so poorly tested, that they make our kids sick or cause reactions or make happen faster something that was already in the works, genetically speaking.

My son is autistic. My son is not vaccinated. My son is high functioning. Maybe if I hadn’t been so diligent in researching, and I had had him vaccinated, he would be so much worse, because they would have created something more inside of him. I have no idea.

I truly believe autism is environmental. I truly do. I don’t think it’s just mercury (I know, it’s supposedly been out of the vaccines since 2001 – to be honest, I don’t keep up anymore, I know they kept using the ones that were already made and the ones produced after that date were not supposed to have it, except for some flu vaccines that do) I think it’s everything. They are a scary cocktail of stuff! So are antibiotics. So are a lot of things.

Sarah Palin’s real soul mate | Salon

Sarah Palin’s real soul mate | Salon.

I couldn’t decide what to highlight in this article, so you get the last few sentences:

In short, far from being angry at McCain’s insubordination, Rove is undoubtedly rubbing his hands. Out with the old Bush, in with the new. Br’er Rove is in his laughing place; the Palin briar patch is where he wanted to be all along.

I’m not exactly “for” Obama, but I am most definitely against McCain and his, ahem, bush of choice, Palin. I can’t find a single thing I agree with her on. Not a one. I am truly frightened of what could (and probably would) happen should they get into office. Scary people, real scary.

I think we have three supreme court justices that can (wil?) be appointed in the coming presidency. I shudder to think of whom McCain/Palin would appoint, and how many rights/freedoms I would lose as a woman, and how many I would stand to lose as a person.

soup is hot food

So I was making veggie soup today and I was to the part where I strain out the veggies and squish the soup out of them and throw most of the squished part out.

I told Eshiva to get away from the stove b/c I was moving hot veggies back and forth. I figured she’s get splattered.

My fucking steamer that was propped up on the pot fell back into the pot and soup splashed *everywhere*

I snatched her up, my sister had already jumped up and I asked (ok, I shouted at) her to run and turn the cold water on in the shower. I have never been properly thankful for having a downstairs full bath. I will be from now on.

I got Shivie (and me) into the shower and hosed her down. I think she was more scared than hurt b/c she isn’t especially red, so either I snatched her up quicker than I thought or less spilled on her than I thought. There was plenty on the floor and stove though, so I dunno.

Scary stuff! She’s fine now, so no worries, but this could have been really *awful*