Mah wee bairn is turning five today!

Not poking fun at any of my Scottish friends. I love that phrase.

Seriously though, I am the parent of a 2.5 year old, and 5 year and a 6 year old (who is going to turn 7 in just a month now!). Can I rip my hair out now?

What happened to my babies?

I woke up this morning after having spent the night in more or less the same position, as I had one to my left and one at my feet all night long. I stretched. I turned this way and that. I dropped a kiss on his head, gently so he didn’t wake up.

I smiled.

I complain about having everyone in my bed. We just purchased four 2x4s to put under our bed for support, because the three skimpy supports were busted or breaking. We just regularly have too much weight on the bed, and that’s just DH & I. Add in the 70 – 110 extra pounds a night in kid and hell yah it’s too heavy for my three measly supports that came with the bed.

Let me tell you, waking up and having the people I love the most in this world around me is great. I suspect I am going to miss it when they are too old to come cuddle with me. I should stop complaining about it.

Malachai is by far my most difficult child. I don’t know if it is a product of being the middle, or just who he is. I was difficult (that’s an understatement!) and I am the oldest, so who knows. I wish he was easier, but then, I suppose, he wouldn’t be my Malachai.

So five years. My first (and only) water birth. My first time breastfeeding successfully. My first completely cloth diapered child. So many firsts, with that second child of mine.

We’re going to have some breakfast today, and head over to the party store so he can pick out some goodies. We’ll have cake and whatnot tonight, and again on Sunday (I’m inviting some family over on Sunday). We got him a Spongebob game for the Wii (it’s a GameCube game) which is what he wanted. We’re going to wait till Sunday when he gets his birthday money to get him anything else. I am on a buying strike for the kids, spoiled little things.

stew

I grew up in Maryland, and we had stew once a week in the winter. Just like popsicles were a summer treat and ice cream was reserved for winter, stew was very much a winter, cold weather, bundle up inside kind of meal. Well, it is never that cold down here, but I still find stew a comfort food the same way some people think of meatloaf. I make it at least a few times a month, it’s great because I can pop it in the crock and leave it to sit all day and voila, dinner is ready right on time to scoop out and onto plates.

you need

  • stew meat (the pre-cubed stuff, it says stew meat on the package) – I get about two pounds. By the way, I like the stuff labeled stew emat because you usually get a good cut of meat. I’ve even made stew out of tenderloin before when we butcher our own. Often the “stew meat” is scraps of the good stuff that wasn’t big enough to sell as a true cut of beef.
  • cornstarch (enough to coat the meat)
  • 4 cups of beef stock (chicken works just as well, to be honest, but I wouldn’t go with vegetable stock)
  • whatever veggies you want to put in – I like carrots, potatoes, onions, peas, green beans and maybe corn if I want to add some color, but really any veggie will do, it’s the beauty of stew!
  • garlic – I use 3 – 4 crushed cloves
  • salt & pepper to taste

Coat the beef cubes in corn starch. You can also choose to just dredge them through the cornstarch, but I’ve had better result thoroughly coating them.

Reserve your left over cornstarch for later in the recipe

Toss them into a pan with some butter or oil or whatever and pre-cook them. You are basically pan frying the beef, but the cornstarch protects it from overcooking, and helps make the gravy (more on that later).

While you are waiting to turn your beef over to cook the other side, pour your beef stock into your crock pot (I use a 6 quart crock and this all fits in nicely, I have no idea if it will fit well in a smaller one) and set it to high to warm it up right quick.

Go turn your beef, and when it’s done, slide it into your crock with the stock. Be careful not to splash that hot stock on your arms! It takes me two to four pans of beef to pre-cook all of it, so this step takes me a good half hour to fully complete.

Let your beef and beef stock cook for a few hours. Add your potatoes now if you are using fresh/raw. You can wait a bit if you are using canned or frozen.

If you aren’t going to be home to break this up into stages, feel free to add all your veggies at this point, and turn your crock down a notch from high (if your crock is like mine, you have warm, low and high, turn it to low, then turn it to high for 30 -60 minutes when you get home to finish off the cooking process).

If you will be home, let it sit a bit, and in a few hours check on how thick the gravy is (remember how we coated our beef? that’s what helps make the stock into gravy) If you want it a little thicker, make a slurry with your reserved cornstarch and cold water and pour it slowly in while stirring until you get a good consistency. Remember it will continue to thicken!

Now is the time to add your veggies as well. Let it all sit for a few hours more and that’s it! Your beef should be very tender, shredding easily. If it is not, let it cook a while longer.

I like to serve this with some lightly buttered bread, it tastes yummy to dip in the gravy :-)

addendum

Took everyone to the doctor who had to go. M & S are fine. I took S to the school to complete her registration, which is done, as well as give them M’s blue & yellow forms to file.

Picked up dad from work and had him drop me off at the vet. Met Michael there. Turns out Sasha may have a huge yeast type infection, but she also has mites (basically mange, if I understood correctly) and is malnourished. Poor little doggie :(

She is staying at the vet for the afternoon to get a dip for the mites, and we’ll be taking her back every Thursday for a while. Once her skin clears up they’ll test it again and see if we got rid of them. Apparently most dogs don’t get this particular beastie past age 1 or 2. She was ignored for so long it just ran rampant. She is also still on the meds she came with, and will be getting a third once I pick her up tonight.

Once her skin clears up and her fur grows back in I am going to have her groomed. I am going to cut the mats and burrs out myself in the mean time.

We made arrangements for her to be boarded while we’re away in September. Michael will drop her off Saturday morning and we’ll pick her up Monday night.

She is going to be a spoiled little thing, I can tell.

Went to lunch at TooJays. Came home. Called Orkin to make arrangements for them to come out. They’ll be here Saturday morning. We need these ants taken care of. It seems to be a lot worse lately. They’ll come do inside, as well as outside, then come back in a month, and every other month after that. We were keeping them under control naturally for a while there. Now they are just everywhere and I am done. In come the nasty nasty chemicals :(

Going out to dinner with a fellow [Punky Mom] tonight, yay! Well, drinks at least. It’ll be pretty late for dinner.

Pretty uneventful until Monday. Both boys have check-ups (for their yellow papers, blue is taken care of already) early early. Michael is going to help prep rooms for painting at the school to start our Chessed hours. Then Dorian is off to the dentist at 5:30.

The dentist is supposedly sending forms for us to fill out so they are ready to go, but we’ll see if they get here in time for us to be there. D has some molars that need fillings, and I want to have his front teeth checked again. His lower left (facing him) tooth  is doing what the other did, coming in behind the tooth that is already there. Unfortunately, unlike the other, this one isn’t really loose enough to come out yet. Andi, didn’t Kira have rows upon rows of teeth? Did that sort itself out?

Malachai needs to see the dentist as well, and he is going to need lots of orthodontia. I swear his teeth are getting more crooked.

Midnight Sky Fibers

I just got some more yarn in the mail from Midnight Sky Fibers. I ordered some more Doorjam. I won’t lie, it should be called Toejam. Someone asked me to define what colour it was, and I said, actually, it’s kind of vomit coloured. Don’t let that deter you from buying it. I adore it. It’s what I used for that dream swatch I posted about last week.
This is the description, verbatim, from the Midnight Sky Fibers sight:

Name: Doorjam

Weight: lace-sock

Yards: 50

Ingredients: wool

Description: Wool spun in stripes of miscellaneous colors- some with touches of mohair, alternating with a dusty purple stripe.

I bought about 90 more yards, to finish said dream swatch. It won’t be super long, but it doesn’t need to be.

When I first met up with Doorjam, it was in a sampler type box I ordered along with a yellow single skein. The yarns from Midnight Sky are always lovely. They have a great.. I want to say raw, but that’s not it, quality you just don’t get from a mass produced skein from a big company. I think a lot of it comes from being handspun (at least the stuff I buy) and not mass-spun. I couldn’t decide what to do with it, but it was begging to be something cute. I did a quick google, and remembered about the Dream Swatch and voila! That was it.

I even got a little surprise in this latest shipment, a free mini skein of Tangerine (which I cannot find on the site, so I am guessing it was an end) but it’s cute too. I am thinking another something small, a couple of change purses or something.

All in all, I have always had a great experience with Midnight Sky Fibers, and I absolutely would send anyone over there to buy yarns.

Punk Rock

We’re having a “whose the most punk” “contest” on Punky Moms. It’s all in good fun. It’s boiling down to who has the best story. I wish I was a story teller like some of my friends lol

Anyway, a lot of everyone else’s antics are reminding me of some of my own. I already posted, and don’t want to continue to post, but I am glad I am reading what is being posted. I was reminded of my first pair of docs, the bondage belt I got from Spider Dave (Spider Dave had his name because of the spider web/spider tattoo on his head), Clockwork Brian… good times down at Fells. A lot of bad times too, but good memories.

I wish I had more photos. I have a handful, none of my hawk up. I wonder if there are any in my yearbook… I wasn’t exactly a featured face in high school.

I wonder what happened to a lot of them. Gutter punks for life, most of them. I can’t even comprehend it, though I suspect I’d have a very, very different life if I could. No kids, no Punky Moms or the great friends I’ve made there. No Michael, no a lot of things.

Feh, I don’t know where this is going. I have better things to worry about now that putting my hair up.