ISO a black dress

I need a dress. I am trying to prepare, and figured might as well do it while I know we have an income, right?  So I am looking for a well styled, black dress.  Respectable enough for a funeral, stylish enough for a night out. I also need some pumps to go with it.

Anyone have any good stores to order something like this from?  I wore a black and white polka dot dress with a hot pink jacket and pink detailed black pumps to my sisters funeral, she would have loved it and therefore it was appropriate for her. It is most definitely not appropriate for any upcoming funerals.

I can have it altered, but I’ll need to buy to fit my chest/hips, so we’re looking at like a 16 – 20 sized top, size 10ish wist and 12-14 hips. Needless to say, this is why I stopped buying dresses.

Any tips on online stores?

Iran eyes badges for Jews & Christians

Because we need another Holocaust. Like there isn’t enough bad stuff going on in the world today that we need some more hate-mongering people, sanctioned by their government to continue with their hate.

Iran eyes badges for Jews & Christians
Law would require non-Muslim insignia

Chris Wattie
National Post

Friday, May 19, 2006

Human rights groups are raising alarms over a new law passed by the Iranian parliament that would require the country’s Jews and Christians to wear coloured badges to identify them and other religious minorities as non-Muslims.

“This is reminiscent of the Holocaust,” said Rabbi Marvin Hier, the dean of the Simon Wiesenthal Center in Los Angeles. “Iran is moving closer and closer to the ideology of the Nazis.”

Iranian expatriates living in Canada yesterday confirmed reports that the Iranian parliament, called the Islamic Majlis, passed a law this week setting a dress code for all Iranians, requiring them to wear almost identical “standard Islamic garments.”

The law, which must still be approved by Iran’s “Supreme Guide” Ali Khamenehi before being put into effect, also establishes special insignia to be worn by non-Muslims.

Iran’s roughly 25,000 Jews would have to sew a yellow strip of cloth on the front of their clothes, while Christians would wear red badges and Zoroastrians would be forced to wear blue cloth.

“There’s no reason to believe they won’t pass this,” said Rabbi Hier. “It will certainly pass unless there’s some sort of international outcry over this.”

Bernie Farber, the chief executive of the Canadian Jewish Congress, said he was “stunned” by the measure. “We thought this had gone the way of the dodo bird, but clearly in Iran everything old and bad is new again,” he said. “It’s state-sponsored religious discrimination.”

Ali Behroozian, an Iranian exile living in Toronto, said the law could come into force as early as next year.

It would make religious minorities immediately identifiable and allow Muslims to avoid contact with non-Muslims.

Mr. Behroozian said it will make life even more difficult for Iran’s small pockets of Jewish, Christian and other religious minorities — the country is overwhelmingly Shi’ite Muslim. “They have all been persecuted for a while, but these new dress rules are going to make things worse for them,” he said.

The new law was drafted two years ago, but was stuck in the Iranian parliament until recently when it was revived at the behest of President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad.

A spokesman for the Iranian Embassy in Ottawa refused to comment on the measures. “This is nothing to do with anything here,” said a press secretary who identified himself as Mr. Gharmani.

“We are not here to answer such questions.”

The Simon Wiesenthal Centre has written to Kofi Annan, the Secretary-General of the United Nations, protesting the Iranian law and calling on the international community to bring pressure on Iran to drop the measure.

“The world should not ignore this,” said Rabbi Hier. “The world ignored Hitler for many years — he was dismissed as a demagogue, they said he’d never come to power — and we were all wrong.”

Mr. Farber said Canada and other nations should take action to isolate Mr. Ahmadinejad in light of the new law, which he called “chilling,” and his previous string of anti-Semitic statements.

“There are some very frightening parallels here,” he said. “It’s time to start considering how we’re going to deal with this person.”

Mr. Ahmadinejad has repeatedly described the Holocaust as a myth and earlier this year announced Iran would host a conference to re-examine the history of the Nazis’ “Final Solution.”

He has caused international outrage by publicly calling for Israel to be “wiped off the map.”

Iran does not yet have nuclear weapons, but Tehran believed by Western nations to be developing its own nuclear military capability, in defiance of international protocols and peace treaties.

The United States, France and Israel accuse Iran of using a civilian nuclear program to secretly build a weapon. Iran denies this, saying its program is confined to generating electricity.

Caring for Your Introvert

Caring for Your Introvert

Caring for Your Introvert

The habits and needs of a little-understood group

by Jonathan Rauch

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D o you know someone who needs hours alone every day? Who loves quiet conversations about feelings or ideas, and can give a dynamite presentation to a big audience, but seems awkward in groups and maladroit at small talk? Who has to be dragged to parties and then needs the rest of the day to recuperate? Who growls or scowls or grunts or winces when accosted with pleasantries by people who are just trying to be nice?

If so, do you tell this person he is “too serious,” or ask if he is okay? Regard him as aloof, arrogant, rude? Redouble your efforts to draw him out?

If you answered yes to these questions, chances are that you have an introvert on your hands—and that you aren’t caring for him properly. Science has learned a good deal in recent years about the habits and requirements of introverts. It has even learned, by means of brain scans, that introverts process information differently from other people (I am not making this up). If you are behind the curve on this important matter, be reassured that you are not alone. Introverts may be common, but they are also among the most misunderstood and aggrieved groups in America, possibly the world.

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tank for wayward fish – the end

we took a gander at the isolated fish this morning, and it looked worse for wear, so instead of outright death by flush, we set it free in the canal out back. i figure it will either find food and grow gigantic, mutate because the canals in florida really are toxic (my own theory) or it will return to the food chain as food. there are some good sized turtles and other fish in there, as well as large birds.

i do feel much better about it being part of the food chain than just being thrown out though.

the other ryukin we have iis kind of swimming aimlessly around the tank though. fish thinks he is looking for his friend. i think he’s a fancy goldfish with 3 seconds of memory and doesn’t notice. we’ll see.

i am keeping a close eye on my other fish to make sure it was a fluke and not a sickness though. that would suck.

thoughts about the shop

last night i resolved we need to move quick. i started digging through the government grants pdf. i had an epiphany at dinner (i was so pissed we left to eat out) that we should open a tattoo shop/art gallery in parkersburg. fish said it wont work, and said who are we gonna showcase, the high school kids? I said everyone has to start somewhere! I was thinking like, 4 – 7 pieces, not like, a huge dedicated gallery.

he suggested half tattoo shop, half video store. i said we wouldn’t have to buy any stock, he has enough movies

but we’ve also toyed with restaurant/shop (called “The Tattooed Chef” or “Tibori”)

and he wants a used book store (so not profitable IMO)

So all these ideas are perculating. We’ll see which one finishes first.

I am all about a tattoo shop/art gallery though. Maybe sell misc. art supplies as well, or something. I dunno.

Fish just said the best idea would be a tattoo shop/salon, people can come get their hair/nails/etc done as well as tattoos/piercings. Then he said it might scare the guys off.

Maybe half the store to do consignment for local crafts/art

We so need to get on this.

I am really into the art gallery/consignment with a tattoo shop. Fsh said I might have to start piercing again, which I am honestly not quite as into as I once was, but if need be, that’s fine.

I don’t have any clue what their arts are like up there, so I need to look into it, but if there is no place catering to small craft sales or unknown artists, i am all about opening someplace to do it!

i am envisoning a two story building, body mod on one floor, gallery on the other. most of their store fronts are the old fasioned buildings that are set up for something like that, not strip malls, so it would work well.

i’m really excited about this right now, and i hope the excitement carries over for the next few months. i know this is going to take serious planning, not up and leaving like i usually do. but if the excitement lasts that it might actually happen, then it will.