Stuff & Nonsense

It is indeed my favourite subject when I have lots of little things to mention.

We had Malachai’s IEP this morning. All went well, he has a 1:1 for part of the day, interviews for the 1:1 were today. His speech was dropped to 3X a week instead of 4X, but not a big deal as he has improved a huge amount and he gets an hour outside of school as well. They are doing a OT/PT request form, so he may get OT/PT in school as well. They are accomodating his OT sensory diet needs. I have to copy and drop off those papers tomorrow morning.

My wrist and elbow are in a lot of pain. In fact, the entire right side of my right hand is a wreck, from pinkie finger down. I am worried, but not too… I’ve been working a lot this week.

Getting the oil changed in the van tomorrow morning, dropping off the release forms to APS (for CSE to be able to communicate with APS), dropping sensory papers off to CSE… busy morning!

There is more, but I really am having trouble typing :/

Good things today

Malachai has a dentist appointment on Monday, finally. They were going to get us in today, but the time was inconvenient, so Monday morning it is! For those who have been paying attention, yes, this has been going on for two months. *grumble* Dorian goes next Friday to have his teeth sealed. I have no clue what we’re doing with Mal on Monday.

I am headed for Broward General on Tuesday for his intake for CMS, something that should have happened in June. Seems like we’re falling through all sorts of cracks!

His IEP is October 1, and hopefully we’ll have his sensory diet written up by then in order to have it implemented into the IEP (so the school has to use it). The aid was approved, but it is one aid for 4 or 5 kids. Not the best, but better than nothing.

Busy morning!

We went to the salon this morning. I have my eyebrows ripped out. They are shapely once again. I made an appointment for next Wednesday to get my hair coloured and cut. I am a few inches worth of root overdue, and I need to have about an inch cut off. I have split ends! Quelle horeur! I’ve never had split ends. Of course, I’ve never had my hair this long, so maybe I’ve just never noticed? Of course we’re going red, big bold beautiful red, with the black lowlights, and the copper highlights.

Rushed over to the boys school to see who their teachers are this year. Malachai has Mrs. Mitchell, which I was hoping for. Dorian had her last year, and I think she’ll be perfect for M this year. I let her know M&W are going to be long days for him. Not anticipating a problem, but just letting her in in case it is. Hot-footed it over to the other new building to meet Dorian’s teacher, Mrs. Vassal. She’s a cute little thing! I am not used to be taller than anyone, but I was. She is very structured, communicates in the homework book (fabulous for me) and was on the ball! I think Dor will do great in her class. I let her know M&W will be long days as well (by association) but I am going to try and arrange to have a sitter so D isn’t out so late. Again, not anticipating a problem, but mentioning it just in case. Stopped in to see Dr. O about the aid for next year. It’s not sounding good. She said they might get one aid to share between the kids who applied, and Mal might get an hour a day with him/her. Well, it’s better than nothing, right? I mentioned he has PT/OT/ST twice a week and we did get hours after school. She said I am just like mom, whether I want to be or not *laughs* We were approved for free breakfast/lunch this year, so that’s good. The boys prefer getting hot lunch to packing a cold one, and it’s 4/5 times a healthy, well rounded meal. I’m really excited about school this year, can you tell?

Grabbed some lunch, and now we’re home! Shop may or may not be closing early tonight, so we might be hitting the expo tonight instead of tomorrow night. I guess it depends on when they close.

I pick the boys up at five today from camp. I need to decide if I am picking up a cake or not… we are celebrating on Sunday, so I figured we’d get a cake and do presents then, but I wanted to give him the MP3 player tonight. I love making birthdays special, but everyone schedules make it hard to do it on the day of the birthday, you know? Maybe I’ll order pizza tonight as a special treat. We’ll see.

Oh, I almost forgot. I had the weirdest dream this morning! First I was dreaming I was following Michael in the car, and he turned, and then I turned, but I turned wrong and got stopped and given a ticket. I kind of woke up from that, and fell back to sleep. Then I dreamed we were at the house, and I get a call that DCF is coming in a half hour! I freak out that we need to clean up, put the clothes away, etc.. The house in my dream was a sty, it was awful and I was freaking out that they were going to take the twins away and the kids and next thing I know Michael was rubbing my  back (IRL) and I mumbled the dream to him and thanked him for waking me up. Then I dozed back off and fell back into the dream, still rushing around trying to clean up a house that seemed familiar, but wasn’t really anyplace that could exist in the real world.

I took a giant step (for me) today

So I spoke with Michael this morning, and I rattled Mandy’s brain about it, and I called my own dad for his opinion. I called CSE about transferring Dorian from HACS over to CSE and what would be involved.

I wanted to wait until after winter break, but school is more than half over by then, so the sooner the better.

Dor wanted to switch, but not until next year. I need to talk to him about it.

I phoned HACS and left a message for them to call me back.

This came about because I was asked to volunteer this morning. Not a problem, but I realized I said I could be there 8 – 11:30 four days a week. Um, no, no I can’t. I’m an idiot. I got so overwhelmed, and felt so guilty for having to call back and back out of it (I still haven’t – waiting on that call back). I am so split with the extra driving, and different schedules. It’s driving me batty.

All I need to move D is proof of address, birth cert, vax exemption, physical and a report card. It will save me 200$ plus gas a month.

It will suck because I need to look into afterschool Hebrew school, but it can wait a bit, I think.

I feel flighty about it. Nervous and excited all in one. I know he will do well wherever we put him. It would free up so much time. It would be so much easier.

It’s not best for him, but it is best for everyone, especially me, because there is no more of me left to dole out. Which is what brought on the sense of urgency I have about this in the first place. I’d hate to tell HACS they are the reason I am pulling him out. It’s kind of ironic to me. I fought like hell to keep him there, and there is the reason it’s just not working for me this year.

Today went well

We had kindergarten orientation this morning at CSE. Everyone said hi in the office (I know most of them from when M & S went there) and even the prinicipal said hi and knew which kid it was :-) Malachai’s teacher will be Mrs. Booth, and when we walked into the room she extender her hand to shake his and he did! OK, he sort of backwards shook it with his left hand, as his right hand was holding mine, but he *touched* her. He smiled and said hi.

We went over what their specials are (like gym, art & music), where the playground is, where to drop him off in the morning and where to pick him up in the afternoon, what time lunch is, etc..

I was really surprised. He seems all about it. He liked the room. Good stuff.

Met with the psychiatrist (psychologist?) in the office before we left and filled out the release for for the psychologist we saw about the testing. Also discussed some other stuff, got a form for last years teacher to fill out if at all possible. I saw the ESE teacher briefly, we’ll be meeting soon as well.

I feel very different about CSE than I do about HACS.  First of all, I’ve known a lot of the staff for almost ten years now. Not on a constant basis, but I recognize them, I know them, I’ve been around them before. They all knew my mom, they knew M & S, and to some degree they did see my kids grow up. I got three hugs this morning in the office and a lot of smiles. It is a different feeling in so many different ways. I don’t have to wear a skirt and shirt sleeves to go there. We saw one sleeved dad this morning, and another with a lot of work. I am still an oddity, but no where near as much as at HACS.

It is early to say it, but a lot of my concerns were alleviated today alone. Let’s hope this year really is off to a good start.