Actual news…

I don’t have much. Which is why you’ve been getting late Twitter updates and nothing else. I’ve even been avoiding the news and other blogs.

Channukah is almost here! First of all, my yearly link ;) Anyone else celebrating it? It’s early this year, Dec 11! My dad is going out of town the next day, for the weekend, so we’ll be doing it up big the first night I think.

Sara wants to make sufgoniyot (jelly doughnuts) this year, because you know we have to get fat to celebrate the miracle of finding oil

I need to make latkes – last year my uncle made some with spinach and feta and I think I might get his recipe this year. They sounded delish.

We’ll celebrate Yule this year as well, but I haven’t really thought about what we’re going to do just yet. Channukah looms large on the horizon :-) Brisket, latkes, sufgonyot, latkes, latkes, latkes…. mmmm latkes.

Speaking of Channukah, we had adult Hebrew school this morning (the Rabbi runs it once a month while the kids are in) and today was… Channukah! Quelle Suprise! I always feel so smart when we leave, because I know what he is talking about :-) We also spoke with another Rabbi and took care of HS tuition (which we can’t afford right now) and I was going to pull the kids out, but they will remain, and I will let them know when we have our feet back under us. I know I bitch about Chabad… I don’t feel like I belong there, like we are Jew-y “enough” to be there, and that we have to cover up (which I would do anyway, it’s the proper thing to do – I jsut resent *having* to do it) but those are *my* issues and they have never, never turned anyone away and I can get behind that. Recently a homeless Jewish man died in the community and they took up collection to bury him in the Jewish part of the local cemetary – his family wanted nothing to do with him. Things like that make me feel good about being connected to them. I might not be Jew enough in my own eyes, when compared to the ultra Orthodox there, but good people are good people regardless of faith. They are good people. I offered my graphic design skills in barter, but I know they have someone who does that already. I don’t really have any other skills to offer, so… I offered what I could.

If you are looking for someplace to donate to this season, and don’t care if it doesn’t match your faith, please consider donating to Chabad of Coral Springs (and please make your donation in memory of Phyllis Johnpoll). If your faith does matter, please consider Delrey School (please make it in Erin Johnpoll’s name) or UCP directly (this does not directly benefit Delrey school, again, please make your donation in Erin’s name). None of those make you feel good about yourself? Please pick any charity you desire and send them at least a few dollars. If you give back to the Universe, the Universe gives back to you.

In other news, I lost my shit with the kids yesterday. Their room is still a mess, as is the living room. They will be cleaning today before we do anything fun. Oh yes, they will. The dogs have fleas. I got Program tabs and Capstar tabs and once they arrive they will be administered, the house will be flea bombed and hopefully they will stay uninfested for a long while.

Today is a laundry day, joy! Not so much. I wish the mail came today. I am expecting a check. I need to give dad back 155$ (for the flea pills), set some aside for our dinner, buy Dorian some shirts, buy two new bike seats and two water bottle holders. I think it should stretch far enough to do that :-)

I need to get back into writing every day.

Brainy Explody

My brain is exploding today. I can’t calm it down. I am well and beyond over stimulated.

This morning we went to Chabad for “graduation” ceremonies. Today was the last day of the year. We signed the boys up for next year. I chatted with Rabbi Denburg. We saw a slide show and took some photos and visited the year end fair.

Then weleft and went to Toys R Us and then visited Gram & Zaide. We were there for an hour or two, and as we were leaving, Malachai picked up a piece of cactus. Michael took him in and spent a good half hour removing tiny red cactus thorns. Microscopic. We’ve been taking them out all afternoon.

Went home, dropped the kids off and went to the food store. I did about half my shopping as I couldn’t even think while we were there. I had a list, but not a complete one. I need to finish tomorrow.

I’m Still Waiting For You, Rivki – News

I’m Still Waiting For You, Rivki

KATAMANDU, NEPAL — (December 7, 2008)

Chani Lifshitz

Chani Lifshitz, Chabad representative in Katamandu, Nepal, wrote a letter to her close friend, Rivkah Holtzberg, following the tragedy in Mumbai. Lubavitch.com presents a translation from the Hebrew that appeared in the Israeli paper, Yediot Achronot.

(lubavitch.com)–”Write,” you told me only two hours and ten minutes before they entered your home. “It’s been a long time since you wrote anything about shlichus,” you noted. “Write something, Chani, for me!”

So I’m writing you, Rivki. For you, my confidant for the last four years.

I’m Still Waiting For You, Rivki – News.

I know, I’ve posted the hell out of this Mumbai tragedy – there are tragedies happenineg every day, why not post about those? Mainlybecause itmes about Mumbai find their way to my screen, and other items do not.

This is just heartbreaking and demonstrates how lost one can feel sometimes. It’s hard to go on when you lose a friend, relative, anyone really, but to lose them in such a violent way, and not really know what happened. I just can’t imagine.

Rabbi, wife among Mumbai terror deaths

Before I get to the article:

I have been getting steady emails from my local Chabad to pray for this family and the others. I kind of shook it off. Why? Forget the religion part for a moment please. Praying, lighting candles, and sending positive energy out into the world is a waste in cases like this, because unless you are open to that positive, it wont reach you. So I was so saddened to hear that this happened.

As it turns out, one of the men and his 13 year old daughter were also murdered. My father knew them, lived down the street from the man when they were kids, went to camp with him… it’s a terrible world we live in on this day. The Rabbi’s baby was let go with the nanny yesterday. What can you even begin to tell that child?

http://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/asiapcf/11/28/india.attacks/index.html

Rabbi, wife among Mumbai terror deaths

* Story Highlights
* NEW: Death toll rises to 160 civilians, police and military
* Rabbi and his wife among five hostages reported killed at Jewish center
* Indian official again suggests that terrorists came from Pakistan
* Police say Oberoi Hotel standoff has ended; One gunman still at Taj Mahal Hotel

MUMBAI, India (CNN) — Security forces believe one gunman is still holed up inside a luxury hotel in Mumbai as it appears military operations against the terrorist gang are winding down at two other sites.

As the death toll from two days of violence rose to 160, details of some of those killed were emerging including Indian police and military, a rabbi, an American father and teen daughter, and a British yacht magnate.

The bodies of five hostages were found at the Chabad House Jewish center where commandos stormed the building through a hole blasted in the wall.

After several hours of gunfire and explosions from inside all went quiet and CNN’s senior international correspondent Nic Robertson said it appeared the operation was over.

The death toll from attacks in nine locations was 160 — including three Germans, an Italian, an Australian and one Chinese among the at least 15 foreigners killed — with a further 327 injured. VideoWatch troops shooting at Chabad House »

Maharashtra state official Bhushan Gagrani said the death toll is expected to rise further and includes civilians, 16 police and two commandos. Eleven terrorists have also been killed.

Earlier, police said they had cleared the Oberoi Hotel, killing two militants and freeing hundreds of trapped guests. They found 30 bodies and were searching the building. VideoWatch hostages walk to freedom »

The killed Americans identified as Alan Scherr, 58, and his daughter Naomi, 13, from Virginia died at the Oberoi. They were visiting India with a meditation group. Read more about those killed in the terror attacks

Fighting continued to rage at the Taj Mahal Hotel — where one gunmen was reportedly still holed up.

Mumbai Police Commissioner Hasan Gafoor told CNN-IBN the gunman was shooting and throwing grenades at security forces.

Gafoor said most of the attackers had been heavily armed. “They were carrying an AK-assault rifle, one or two hand guns, and grenades.”

Outside, onlookers and reporters cowered behind cars as gunfire was exchanged and explosions could be heard. VideoWatch CNN’s exclusive access to some of the wounded »

CNN’s International Security Correspondent Paula Newton said UK authorities were checking reports that some of the attackers were of British origin.

Meanwhile, Pranab Mukherjee, the external affairs minister for Maharashtra state, where Mumbai is located, said the preliminary investigation “indicates that some elements in Pakistan are involved.”

“I can’t tell you the details since the investigation is going on,” he said. “Until the investigation is complete, it will be difficult to say where they came from and how they came.”

Indian Prime Minister Manmohan Singh also indicated the gunmen came from Pakistan’s largest city, Karachi, in a telephone call with his Pakistani counterpart Friday.

In response, Pakistani Prime Minister Yousuf Raza Gilani said he would send the chief of his country’s intelligence agency to help with the investigation.

The gunmen were young men in their 20s who “obviously had to be trained somewhere,” a member of the Indian navy’s commando unit said Friday.

They fired at guests “with no remorse” and knew the layout of the hotels well enough to “vanish” after confronting security forces, the commando said.

“Not everybody can fire the AK series of weapons, not everybody can throw a grenade like that,” the commando said outside the Taj hotel. “It is obvious that they were trained somewhere.”

The shell-shocked city woke Friday to television images of Indian soldiers rappelling down ropes from military choppers on to the roof of Chabad House, which houses the Mumbai headquarters of the Chabad community, a Hasidic Jewish movement. VideoWatch the commando talk about the attackers »

The Chabad-Lubavitch International group said Rabbi Gavriel Noach Holtzberg, 29, made a phone call to the Israeli Consulate to report gunmen in the house. “In the middle of the conversation the line went dead,” the organization said. His wife, Rivka, 28, was also killed.

The couple’s toddler son, Moshe, escaped with his nanny, the organization said in a written statement.

The bodies of three other hostages were found in the building. Two gunmen died in the battle at Chabad House, CNN-IBN reported.

The identity of the attackers remained a mystery. Police said they came by boats to the waterfront near the Gateway of India monument and the two hotels.

Indian naval and coast guard investigators have determined that two vessels recently seized in the Arabian Sea have no links to the Mumbai attacks. A fishing trawler, however, remains in custody.

The Press Trust of India, citing Union Cabinet Minister Kapil Sibal, reported the gunmen had worked for months to prepare, even setting up “control rooms” in the two luxury hotels that were targeted.

Indian authorities said no one had claimed responsibility, although the Deccan Mujahideen took credit in e-mails sent to several Indian news outlets.

Interpol said it would send a delegation to India.

“When such coordinated and planned terrorist attacks are carried out against international targets and when a country’s head of government states there are suspected ‘external linkages’, the police in the country concerned require international assistance,” said Interpol’s Secretary General Ronald K. Noble.

CNN’s Andrew Stevens, Mallika Kapur, Harmeet Singh, Sara Sidner, Alessio Vinci, Reza Sayah and Paula Newton contributed to this report.

Help A Girl Out

I just got this from Chabad.org and I thought I’d pass it along

B”H

Dear Readers of TheJewishWoman.org,

I’d like to take a moment of your time for a small favor that will have a huge impact…

A few years ago a girl by the name of Leah Larson emailed me. At the time, she was only twelve-years-old. She was the editor of a new magazine called Yaldah (meaning “girl” in Hebrew) and was inviting me to judge its first essay contest. The email was so eloquent and well-written that it never occurred to me that I was talking to a pre-teen. But then again, nothing about Leah Larson is typical. This is a young woman who dreams big and who makes her dreams her reality. She wanted to start a successful magazine, by girls for girls, and she has done a remarkable job with it. She runs workshops for girls and a summer camp, and her ideas grow as she grows. She is actually the first girl thus far to have been part of our “Jewish Women You Should Know” series (click here for the article: http://www.chabad.org/467829)

So why am I telling you about Leah? Because with our help, Leah has the unique opportunity to win $100,000 for Yaldah Magazine. It appears that Wells Fargo Bank also realizes how special Leah is as they chose her as one of the finalists for their Someday Stories Contest: http://blog.wellsfargo.com/somedaystories/

There are only four days left to vote for Leah. It takes literally one minute to fill out your email and zipcode and then you click “vote” under the video for Evelyn from MA (Leah is still under 18 so her mother is her representative!)

As readers and subscribers of TheJewishWoman.org I wanted to invite you to help a passionate young woman inspire other Jewish girls to use their writing, their imagination, their creativity and their intellect, to follow their dreams.

At this very moment, Leah has 17,616 votes, and another contestant has 17,679 votes. Let’s have TheJewishWoman.org be the force to tip these scales.

Please vote now! Again, the direct link is: http://blog.wellsfargo.com/somedaystories/

Thanks,

Sara Esther Crispe
Editor, TheJewishWoman.org

Now, I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I am not SuperJew. In fact, I often find myself irritated with SJ for reasons not quite clear to me. However, religion aside, what an amazing opportunity for such a young girl! We should encourage such reaching for the stars in any way we can. It will only take a moment. What’s a moment in a day packed full of them?