Transgender Rabbinical Students Finding Equality in the Jewish World

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“The Torah reminds us 36 times that we must welcome and be kind to the stranger because we were strangers in the land of Egypt,” he said. “We have a cultural memory, a cultural and religious understanding of what it means to be marginal.”

Moving toward acceptance of different manifestations of gender, he said, isn’t limited to transgender people. “One of the myths that we’re taught is that gender is a fixed thing, and I don’t think it works that way. … It’s much more complicated than that.”

He cites men who want to stay home with their children, or women who want to take the position of breadwinner in the family as examples of people who don’t fit into traditional gender roles — and of whom he believes the Jewish community could be more accepting and supportive.

“Judaism teaches me to look at every single person as made in the image of God, even if that person’s experience is new or unfamiliar to me,” he said. “That’s a large part of what should teach us to be more welcoming to transgender people and many other people as well.”

I can’t tell you how much I love this. I am still at odds with my local group of Jews – I have a fundamental disagreements with the fundamentals ;) – but overall, of all the religions I’ve studied, Judaism is one of my favourites. This just underlines that for me. I mean, his gender shouldn’t matter anyway, but with all the hate-mongering in the world, especially the hate-mongering in the religious communities, this makes me happy to read.

A little bit of everything is totally an update

I’ve been jotting off one-liners on FB and twitter, I haven’t even been blogging (about personal life or news lol)

Hi! I’m Jenn! For those who don’t know I live in South Florida and I’ll begrudgingly admit I love it here. All three of my kids are Floridians, but I am from the DC/Baltimore metro area. Love it, it miss, don’t wanna live there. My mom died a few years ago and I inherited my brother and sister and father. The twins are off to college next year! They graduate June 7. Michael is headed to Stetson to do something involving computers and cinematography and Sara is staying local and transferring out later. [Read more...]

gender bending

It occures to me ive never personally known any female to male trans but Ive known lots of male to females both pre and post op. I wish changing was “scifi” easy like in steel beach. I’d swap back and forth every few years. How amazing would that experience be? Not from a “trapped in the wrong body” position but from a “happy in both unhappy in one” position. If I could I’d change my body like I change my hair – just to experience something new and amazing. I mean, I already alter it with tattoos and piercing and I’ve always been facinatr d with surgical modifications. I imagine one day gender swapping will be easy and just another way to mod. Not in my lifetime tho. Or my kids. No I don’t want to be a boy but what an awesome experience it could be, ya know?

Im on my phone so this took forever and i didnt really elaborate. Suffice to say, i think the opportunity to swap gender at will, easily with no negative surgical repercussions, would be amazing.

Friday Five

Punky Moms is trying out something new, go check it out!

  1. What’s your natural color? as an adult, boring old brown
  2. What’s your current color?auburn, red, faded red
  3. What’s your favorite color?red!
  4. Would you dye your kids hair if they asked you to? (We’re talking about the grade school crowd here)we’ve dome streaks, but not the entire head
  5. Mohawk: Yes please or over my dead body?not in a long time, but I’d be down for one… not on the kids. I hate seeing mohawks on kids. Can’t explain it, it just bugs me

Planting in Newspaper? Sure Thing!

This year I decided to grow a garden. I’m not really sure why, it just felt like the thing to do. I spent some time fumbling with what to use from cardboard boxes to plastic pots in various sizes to terra cotta to peat and finally wound up with a 4′x8′x1′ raised bed made from 1×4′s and some junk wood from the cut bin.

Let’s go back to the beginning. I started all but one of my current plants from seed. I didn’t expect it to work, it never had before. Lo and behold, I made plants! Well, I can grow a baby, so of course I can grow a plant. Shhh, it’s actually easier to grow a baby!

Let’s also skip my early attempts. I planted in paper Dixie cups, figuring once I had a great rootball I could put the cups in my compost bin (which I’ve had for a couple of years now). I got two full cycles out of those cups, and they did make it into my bin, but newspaper cups? Way easier. I promise.

First, gather your supplies. You’ll need an empty soda or juice can (or a juice cup about the same size, the key here is for it to be a perfect cylinder, not angled!), some old newspaper, planting soil*, seeds, and a low-sided box OR a low-sided plastic bin (see photos), both large enough to hold however may pots you are making.

*A note on your soil: if it feels too heavy for the size of the bag, it’s probably top soil and not good for planting. If it feels light, too light for the size of the bag, it’s probably perfect. [Read more...]